Book Notes: The Way of the Superior Man

These are my notes on the book “The Way of the Superior Man“. These are just my notes, not my thoughts.

Healthy relationships need a feminine and a masculine person, not a 50/50 equal setup like in many of todays relationships ⭐️
- You don’t need this for friendship or love, but for ongoing sexual passion

Masculine characters get their fullfillment by mission and success and freedom while feminine characters get it by family. ⭐️
Women are dramatic. If there is something in their character you don’t like, don’t try to change it. Either leave her of accept if. If you accept it find humor in her character. Love her with that characteristic instead of letting it make you angry or sad. ⭐️
Don’t change your deep values for a woman.
Your purpose must come before your relationship. Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty. ⭐️
- For women it’s also unsexy if you don’t stay true to your purpose/what you want to do and give up on it for her, as it shows weakness.
Constantly live in a bit discomfort but not too much. A man needs constant challenge, leaning just beyond the edge.
Woman test you with “shit tests”. Accept that and smile them away. Appreciate them even and don’t hope your woman gets easier because they show her will to have a good man. ⭐️

Woman change their minds based on their moods. That’s why when they say something it’s not often what they truly mean. Don’t take what a woman says too seriously, except she says it in a moment of strong love.
While men grow through challenge, women grow through support. Don’t challenge her, instead praise her to make her grow. For example don’t tell her to not gain more weight but instead tell her that you love her body when she’s losing some. Praise the quality that you want to grow, even it’s not praiseworthy for you yet. ⭐️
“A superior man doesn’t see his girls moods as a burden but as a challenge and an amusement.” ⭐️
When women are moody don’t solve their problems, but just listen first.
Making decisions is a masculine trait. Therefore as a man, it’s your job to make decisions plus you should even offer your woman to help her make her decisions.

There are women with cool energy, which is more calm and helping you to relax, and women with more hot energy.
In different times of your life you might need different energies. If your life is more simple you might need a hot women to heat it up while you rather enjoy a cool woman when your life is busy and stressful.
That doesn’t mean you need to change wife’s. Don’t react too drastically. Simply be aware of your needs and find ways to balance the energy, e.g. by taking a walk or changing to a simpler diet to get cooled down.

To get a woman’s respect a man needs to follow and prioritize his purpose.
A woman doesn’t care about the past (if you have been good or bad in the past). She cares about how you are right now.
Not having a clear direction as a man forces your woman to become more masculine.
Women want a man that is fearless.

Absorbe the feminine energy that surrounds you.
Women have different energies with different ages. You can’t and should not force her to change her energy to another age.
You know how fully committed you could be to, say, finishing a project at work. Treat her mood with the same ferocity of intent. Her mood is your challenge. ⭐️
Every moment you treat your woman as simply a childcare helper or a buddy, you are neutralizing your sexual connection.
New woman and new work will excite you and cheer you up. And this is exactly what a mediocre man does: He stays with a woman and a project for as long as they interest him and turn him on. When the excitement seems to wear off, he moves on to another and then another hopeful source of polarity and excitement. ⭐️

Intimate relationship is never the priority in a masculine man’s life and always the priority in a feminine woman’s life. If a man has a masculine sexual essence, then his priority is his mission, his direction toward greater release, freedom, and consciousness. If a woman has a feminine sexual essence, then her priority is the flow of love in her life, including her relationship with a man whom she can totally trust, in body, emotion, mind, and spirit. Man and woman must support each other in their priorities if the relationship is going to serve them both. ⭐️
To you, intimacy is something to be enjoyed in addition to your purpose. To your woman, intimacy is at the core of her life, and the tone of your intimacy colors everything else she does.⭐️
Masculine and feminine energies in intimacy are governed by the law of conservation. The less masculine direction you are living in truth, the more masculine direction your woman will take on. ⭐️

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